Reevaluating goals
November 29, 2011 6 Comments
When I was a kid, I would bring home report cards with straight A’s. I’m not trying to brag I swear. But I was that kid who wasn’t the smartest in the class, but I was bright, I caught on quickly and I put in the work and was rewarded with good grades. (OK, I struggled in math and sometimes got B’s in it…) But every single quarter, I’d show my mom my report card and after saying, “great job, I’m proud of you,” she’d always say the same thing:
You know what grandpa would say to me if I brought home a report card like this? ‘Think of what you could do if you really tried.’
Always a blow to my already fragile 9-year-old self-esteem.
So after my weekend of PR’s, I got to thinking:
What could I do if I really tried?
It reminded me of the goals I set at the end of 2010 for this year. Very clear cut:
- Qualify for Boston.
- Break a 22:00 5K.
- Get out of Ohio.
- Find a boyfriend with an out-of-town family.
I’ve only reached the non-running ones. I went to North Carolina to visit said boyfriend (whose family lives in Youngstown. Far enough) and then he and I went to Chicago and Vegas. So go me!
But what about the others? It’s a “think of what you could do if you really tried” situation.
I will admit, they’re both extremely lofty goals. I gave up on a BQ after I got hurt, knowing I’d be lucky if I could just make it to Chicago.
And I’ll be completely honest, I probably could have ran Saturday’s 5K in 22:XX had I not slowed down going up the final hill. I mean really, it’s one of those, I really could have pushed harder situations.
But that’s neither here, nor there and I’m not about to dwell on missed opportunities in the past. In reality, there were a few problems with the goals I set last year. They were too broad. I didn’t say how I was going to achieve them, just why I wanted to achieve them.
You’ve probably heard this before, but when goal setting, you should use the SMART principle: Specific. Measurable. Attainable. Realistic (or relevant). Time-bound.
I still want to qualify for Boston. I still want to run a 22:00 5K. There’s some other things I want to do to and I’ve been thinking a lot about it, especially as everyone talks about what they want to do in 2012… the year I can’t plan for.
So what are a few of my goals?
- Build lean muscle mass and decrease my body fat percentage by 2 percent by strength training two times per week for three months.
- Finish a 50-mile ultra marathon by following a recommended training plan by the end of summer 2012.
- Run a sub-4:00 marathon by incorporating two days of speed work per week into my training program by spring 2013.
Detailed, specific, set time frame and how I will get there.
So think about it:
What could you do if you really tried?

Great post on goal setting, Kali!
I use the SMART methodology in all aspects of my life. It is also good to break down goals into short, medium, and long term.
Good luck and happy running!
Great post! I totally know what you mean, having some left in the tank at the end of a race can be frustrating, but also inspiring. We all can dig deeper than we once thought possible, this applies to every facet of life, not just running. When I first set out for that elusive BQ, I failed. I failed SIX more times. But each time I learned a new lesson and I began to chip away at that goal time. The 3:39:59 felt so unattainable at one time. Now I have goals of breaking 3:20! If you would have asked me back in 2004 what I thought I was capable of in the marathon, I don’t know if I would have even said I could BQ. If you asked me if I thought I could obtain a 3:2X:XX I would have told you that you were hight. But with tweaking of your workouts, gaining more experience and putting your nose to the grindstone, you can do some awesome things. The human body is truly amazing, never doubt it!
Oh man, this post is really pushing me to think far and beyond goals I have set. I believe I could achieve a lot more than I’m currently setting myself up for. These are such great goals, Kali! I can’t wait to see you accomplish them. I’m so proud of you, friend!
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